Fellow author and dear friend, Cheryl Anne Gardner, posted a review of Are You Sitting Down? this past week.
You can read the full review here or at Amazon.
While I love the entire review and have read it about a dozen times by now, here’s my favorite part:
They say in a small town everyone knows everything about everyone else, and this story serves to debunk that myth. Here everyone knows what they think they know, and in reality, they only know what’s relevant to their own personal struggle, and their attitudes towards the secrets that they think they know are really just reflections of their own inner turmoil. No one really knows anything deeper about the other characters aside from the surface wounds, which is sadly true to life. We talk to the people in our lives, but we rarely really listen. We claim to “share” our most intimate feelings with a certain few, but we rarely tell anyone the unadulterated truth about anything. That realism and truth about the collective consciousness is driven home quite powerfully in this story.
As Cheryl mentioned early on, I thanked her in the back of this book for just “getting me.” Cheryl and I have never met face to face and have never verbally spoken to each other. Our communication has only been through email or Facebook. I’ve read three of her books though and she’s now read two of mine. But you know how sometimes when something just clicks and you know you’ve made a genuine friend? I got that from Cheryl very early on in our correspondence. And there have been few people like that in my life because I think there are few people like that out in the world for each of us.
Sure, we make lots of contacts throughout our lives. We have friends, good friends, and best friends. Heck, don’t you wish you could divide them into groups sometimes on Facebook? But those genuine friends, those real connections, no matter how they are made are real. And we know it when it happens. And I’m glad Cheryl is one of mine. Her opinion is important to me, and her praise for my book made my day! Like I said, she gets me. And when someone reads my work and they connect with it the way I intended a reader to, I know I’ve done a good job. I’ve written a good story. And that means a lot to me.
Thanks, Cheryl! Love ya!