Shannon Yarbrough

author, poet, and painter

The Children: Part 1 July 4, 2008

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Pets have always been an important part of my life.  They make me happy, and have always been something I look forward to coming home to each and every day.  No matter how bad the day went, a pet can quickly make you forget all about it.  J and I have several…cats, dogs, and fish.  So, I thought I’d spend a few posts introducing the other parts of our family that make up our lil household.

Bon Jour is the lucky first to be introduced.  He’s a mysterious kitty that I acquired from a coworker back in 2000.  She (the coworker) met a man on the internet, married him, and moved off to England.  With no one to take her two full grown aging cats, I came into work one day and found her crying.  No one wanted both of them, and no animal shelter or pet place could guarantee they wouldn’t be split up.  She wanted them to stay together, and knew Bon Jour would probably not survive being quarantined to go overseas.  Having never met this odd cat, I felt sorry for her and agreed to take both of them from her and keep them together.

I quickly learned WHY no one wanted both of them.  Bon Jour was a finicky cat who would not let anyone but her touch him.  If someone knocked on her door, he ran and hid under her bed.  Most people didn’t even know she had two cats. On the day I went to pick them up, I took Avery (the other cat who I will talk about next) home and had to come back later to get Bon Jour.  She could not coax him out from under the sink.  So, I left her alone with him.  She borrowed a neighbor’s crate (which was for a dalmatian) and called me several hours later when Bon Jour was ready to go.  After fighting to get the crate in my car and into my home, I pushed it up against my bed and opened the door.  Bon Jour quickly ran out and under my bed, and that’s where he stayed for about a month.

I put food on one side and a litter box on the other, and never saw him until one night when I was sitting at the computer.  Bon Jour, desperate for human contact, ventured out and took one look at me.  He jumped up on the desk with caution, but allowed me to gently stroke his neck.  We’ve been best friends ever since.

Now, Bon Jour, being a French kitty still had quite a bit of attitude, and still had all his claws.  He still ran when company came over, but I had a roommate that Bon Jour had to become accustomed to.  When another friend moved in for a few months, Bon Jour quickly adapted to being around men and being around more than one person.  His kitty shell was quickly broken, and although today he is still a bit timid, like all cats he goes off and does his own thing.  But he will come out and visit strangers now at least when we have company, taking his time to sniff them and rub on their feet and allow them to touch him.  That’s something he never did when my coworker friend owned him.

Bon Jour loves to sit at my feet and stretch up over my chair and lick my wrist while I’m typing, as he is doing right now.  He wants my attention and usually wants in my lap. He loves to watch birds in the window sill, but panics if he ventures outside onto the deck.  So, he never gets out much. His front claws were removed a few years ago in order to bring peace to the furniture.  He likes to eat pizza crust, Doritos chips, and Wendy’s French fries, and KFC chicken nibblies, all in very small portions of course. Don’t forget tuna can juice, and he will beg for a saucer of milk if you are standing in the kitchen.

To be such a fierce looking cat, supposedly a Maine coon, he has the saddest squeak for a meow, but he is a very loving cat that at the end of each day comes running to lay next to me on the bed when I go to sleep.  He’s my Bo Bo kitty!

In my Part 2 post, you’ll meet Avery.  He is Bon Jour’s brother, and was an entirely different cat than Bon Jour was when we first met.

 

The Last Gay Bookstore July 4, 2008

Interesting story in the Times Online today about Creative Visions Bookstore of New York.  Not only is it a great survival story of an indie bookstore in today’s internet commerce world, but the birth of the store itself was a nice heartwarming tale. I say “was” because unfortunately this story was originally published in 2003.  The store closed in 2004.  Read the story of its last days here.  It’s probably something depressing like a Starbucks or a Baby Gap now.

Why does this matter? Because on today of all days, when we celebrate our country’s birth and independence, we conjure up thoughts of red, white, and blue blasts in the sky, the Statue of Liberty, bald eagles, soldiers in camo and stuck in foreign countries fighting for our freedom, watermelon and barbecue, children running with sparklers, George Washington, the Star Spangled Banner, our nation’s flag, Abe Lincoln, the list goes on and on….

But in today’s time when gas prices are soaring, people can’t afford their houses and their houses aren’t worth anything anyway because of a sad market, we make less but have more debt, we continue to push ourselves further faster and faster building better cell phones and interactive video games.  Technology has advanced us so quickly when it comes to communication, but we can’t even communicate with one another verbally.  Vowels are dead, IDK why.  We text. We IM.  We care more about the value of our property than we care about making our property a home.  Doesn’t anybody stay in one place anymore?

I’m rambling, I know, but here’s my point….and I do have one!  We love our discount books and huge Amazon.com one-stop-shopping selections and free shipping that the man in brown brings right to your door.  We don’t have time to go to quaint shopping districts and browse.  We’re glad they are there, but we want bitter coffee, the same kind that everyone else is drinking.  We want to pay ten dollars for it too and get bad service, no service at all.  We want to hear ourselves say out loud “Viente Latte;” it makes us feel important.

Plow down those narrow roads, lined with trees and cute little shops lit with gaslit street lamps, with indie bookstores and beat nick coffee houses.  Who needs ‘em?  Put up a parking lot, the song says! I’ll read whatever Wal-Mart wants me to read.  I’ll drink whatever everyone else is drinking.  I want it fast.  I want it now.  Forget the independent business owner.  Who is that anyway?  He can go be a greeter at Wal-Mart.  Oh wait, we don’t talk to one another, remember?  When I walk in the door, maybe he can text a greeting to me.  WTWM!

So, years from now when your kids are grown and have kids of their own, will they still be celebrating the birth of our country today and ignoring the slow choking death of everything this nation built upon the very ideals of independence in the first place?  Or will they not have time to celebrate because they work for what was once an American business, but it was sold out at 65 dollars a share to some foreign nation who requires them to work today?

People, we are wiping away the American businesses, and I’m talking about the REAL American businesses.  Not the Wal-Marts, and Starbucks, and B&N’s.  That’s not America!  I’m not looking for some prairie bonnet wearing woman to serve me a pickle from a barrel and a mug of sarsaparilla, but do you remember the days when an attendant used to come out and pump your gas for you?  Remember the days when a young boy bagged your groceries and helped you out to the car with them?

Those days are long over!  But you asked for it!  We shut out our very own business owners and now we are overwrought with inflated prices and poor quality.  This is America.

Happy Independence Day!